Relationship Check: Are We Just Roommates? | USA Edition

Are We Just Roommates?

Take this quiz to see if your relationship has turned into a roommate situation or if you’re still deeply connected

Relationship Assessment

1. Do you and your partner spend quality time together (without distractions)?
2
Regularly
1
Occasionally
0
Rarely
2. Do you feel emotionally connected with your partner?
2
Deeply connected
1
Somewhat connected
0
Disconnected
3. Do you communicate openly about your feelings?
2
Always
1
Sometimes
0
Rarely
4. Do you express physical affection (like hugs, cuddles)?
2
Daily
1
Occasionally
0
Almost never
5. Do you and your partner still engage in shared goals or dreams?
2
Actively pursuing
1
Not sure
0
No shared goals
6. How often do you go on dates or have romantic evenings? (USA-specific)
2
Weekly dates
1
Monthly dates
0
Rarely/never
7. How often do you socialize as a couple with friends? (USA-specific)
2
Regularly together
1
Occasionally together
0
Mostly separate
8. How are household responsibilities divided? (USA-specific)
2
Equally shared
1
Somewhat balanced
0
Like roommates
9. How often do you surprise each other or give gifts? (USA-specific)
2
Often
1
Special occasions only
0
Rarely/never
10. Do you take vacations or weekend getaways together? (USA-specific)
2
Regularly
1
Occasionally
0
Rarely/never

Your Relationship Assessment

Here’s how your relationship scores

0
out of 20
Roommates Couple

Relationship Resources

Recommended Reading

“The 5 Love Languages” by Gary Chapman

Online Counseling

BetterHelp or Talkspace for couples therapy

Date Night Ideas

Romantic date ideas across the USA

This tool is for self-reflection only and not a substitute for professional relationship counseling. Results are based on self-reported information.

Made with for couples in the USA | © 2023 Relationship Insights

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